Taking 100% Responsibility of Your Actions....

This idea may seem easy to understand but is one of the most diffcult things to implement within your life. Taking 100% responsibility of your life means putting an end to blaming, being accountable and responsible for each and every thing that happens in your life.

The reason why this is important is because if you take responsibility of something, you have the power to change it. However, if the blame game is being played there is nothing much you can do since for every thing the excuse would be that "this thing/person needs to be changed".

This thought has a very profound meaning if taken the time out to think about it. Imagine yourself holding the globe in your hand as "your world", as an indiviual we have now the power to create the world that we live in, customize it as we want it to be and not like someone else would want it.

It may take some time but when a person starts taking personal responsibility for each and everything that happens to him/her that is when personal transformation beging and that is when you can decide the world that you want to live in and not the one that has been created by others around you....

Neuro-Associative Conditioning

Today, I will be talking about an area of NLP which I learnt through the book of Anthony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within. This concept is known as Neuro-Associative Conditioning (NAC).

The idea behind this is that if you associate pleasure with any activity the mind would want to do more of that and less of anything with which you associate pain. This is a very effective way of overcoming negative/ bad habits and developing productive habits.

The mind is a mechanism which will believe whatever is told to it with belief and passion. If for example you are addicted to tea and you want to get over that addiction. The best way to do that through the use of NAC is to associate negative things with tea, like vomiting, food poisoning, stomach ache etc. Try to visualize it and really feel that if you drink one more cup of tea you will be under immense pain and you would vomit. If this is done properly, your addiction of tea would be reduced and if done for a couple of days/weeks it would also help you to get over drinking tea for ever. (This is my true experiment, I was addicted to tea. Now I am not)....

This can literally work with anything...the bigger the addiction the more belief and passion would go into making it happen.....it surely will...

Importance of Positive Thinking before an Action

The area of positive thinking and law of attraction has been attacked from different directions with the same criticism that it ignores the important of taking action or doing something. This is not true, taking action is equally important but however, that is step TWO. The first step is for the person to be "mentally prepared".

If you are not mentally prepared to take an action, the act of taking the action would be not be very effective since the alignment of the mind and body would be missing and thus a person gets doubtful or feared of whether something should be done or not.

Being a strong believer of positive thinking, I do not encourage people to only sit and think positively since planning accompanied by the right action steps in what complets a task.

When a person creates a vivid picture of how something needs to be acheived or done, the process gets much easier since if it is not going according to the mental image, changes can be done. However, if there is no mental image there is nothing to compare to and thus the person would accept anything that seems suitable and thus effectiveness would lack....

It is a simple concept....dont make it complicated....all you have to do is practice....and you will master it...

Welcome..!!!

Hello Everyone....

I would like to welcome all of you to this blog which is going to be the source for self-development and interesting discussions about creating a more successful and worldclass life for yourself.

Let me introduce passion, the fire within me for life coaching developed over two years back and ever since it has been growing gradually. I have spent over two years reading books, attending seminar and actually coaching people on different levels in order to satisfy my hunger and thirst for this area of life.

I have recently started my freelance coaching practice and this blog is the second step towards that, in the mean time I work on creating my own website.

I have a dream....and my dream is

To Enable a Million People to live a World class, Satisfied Life that they Desire for

I have a philosophy....and my philosophy is

A simple life will lead to a world class life

I belive in one thing, a successful life is easy to create but the life of significance is what humans should strive for. It is through creating a significant impact over others is what would create true fulfillment within you....